Expert Advice

Drs. Tom and Bev Rodgers


Providing advice and information to members is a crucial key ingredient to the overall structure of Cache’ Connections. We are not only interested in introducing you to other Christian singles, but are here to help navigate the issues that you may be facing. In this section, Cache’ Connections makes available to you a wealth of information provided by our Christian experts. These professionals have spent years counseling, instructing, speaking and coaching on single-relevant topics. We encourage everyone to spend some time reading the articles in order to prepare for successful relationships.

God Is A Matchmaker

August 10, 2008

by Leigh Devore   Are you ever going to get married? Don’t you want to have a family? Are you too picky? What’s wrong with you?” These are just a few of the many questions that single men and women are read more

What makes a woman truly attracted to a man?

July 30, 2008

by Michael Smalley What is truly attractive to a woman?  Is it a man’s muscles?  Is it a man’s manly look?  You might be surprised about what Forbes discovered in a recent study by Durham and St. Andrews Universities:When read more

The irresistible single

July 30, 2008

by Michael Smalley  If you are single and want to be irresistible, then what does it take to get noticed?  What are the most important qualities of an irresistible person - a virtual love magnet?  Keep on reading a read more

How Do I Get Her to Respond?

June 25, 2008

     By Alan and Pauly Heller Walk & Talk Ministries www.walkandtalk.org Jerry, a sales representative for a textile firm, makes frequent calls on the furniture design studio where Mary works. He finds her attract read more

The strongest case against cohabitation I’ve ever read!

June 5, 2008

By:  Michael Smalley   Tis the season for weddings, but it’s a little difficult to get starry-eyed at the nuptials when more than half of all American couples have lived together before walking down the aisle. During the p read more

Do Opposites Attract and Is That A Good Thing?

May 17, 2008

By Drs. Beverly and Tom Rodgers   Emily entered our counseling office wearing a crisp white shirt, tan pants, and a fashionable, yet casual, navy blazer. Zack, her husband of six months, had on his favorite acid washed jeans, a t-shir read more

Are Singles Afraid of Marriage?

May 14, 2008

By Drs. Beverly and Tom Rodgers  Lisa was an attractive, athletic, 38-year-old paralegal who worked for a very prestigious law firm. It appeared as though she had everything going for her. She was pretty, stayed in shape, had plenty of read more

What is Romantic Love Anyway?

May 14, 2008

By Beverly Rodgers MS, PhD, LMFT and Tom Rodgers MA, PhD, MHDL   As marriage counselors who work with a great many hurting couples on a daily basis, we are surprised at how little engaged couples think about the marriage.  They g read more