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Expert Advice
Drs. Tom and Bev Rodgers
Providing advice and information to members is a crucial key ingredient to the overall structure of Cache’ Connections. We are not only interested in introducing you to other Christian singles, but are here to help navigate the issues that you may be facing. In this section, Cache’ Connections makes available to you a wealth of information provided by our Christian experts. These professionals have spent years counseling, instructing, speaking and coaching on single-relevant topics. We encourage everyone to spend some time reading the articles in order to prepare for successful relationships.
The irresistible single
July 30, 2008
If you are single and want to be irresistible, then what does it take to get noticed? What are the most important qualities of an irresistible person - a virtual love magnet? Keep on reading and discover the qualities of an irresistible single:
- An irresistible single puts the needs of others ahead of their own. In other words, you are the servants of servants. Nothing is more attractive to someone than the heart of a servant. When you genuinely care for the needs of others, they can’t help but be pulled toward you. Now, this is not about serving so you can get what you want, but rather an authentic attitude of servanthood that follows the words of Christ.
- An irresistible single is someone who listens. A great listener has the ability to tune out other distractions and focus on the words and feelings behind the words that the speaker is sharing. A great listener asks clarifying questions to make sure he or she understands the speaker. Your body language says, “I’m genuinely interested in what you are saying.” A great listener doesn’t try to solve what the speaker is saying, unless the speaker has asked for a solution.
- An irresistible single is comfortable being single. You do not have to be married, you would like to, but you do not have to. Nothing is more unattractive than a single who is desperate. When you become desperate, you are sabotaging your chance for true love because no one worth marrying is interested in someone who is desperate. So be happy about being single and patiently wait for the right person to come along.