Single Spotlight Members

Michael, 52

Jean, 59

Kelly, 36

Andrea, 43

Matt, 35



I'm a good, affectionate, fit and successful Christian man. Fluent in listening, with character, integrity and laugh lines... One imperfect gentleman, willing to marry a smart, spiritual, sometimes silly, always affectionate woman. I love children, international travel, fine art, the theater, spending time with friends, daily exercise and intellectual conversations. I live in an 18th century home with 5 fireplaces and one sweet dog in Old Town Alexandria, and have a weekend get-away on the Chesapeake Bay in Annapolis. My idea of a fun vacation is cycling down the Loire Valley from castle to castle, hiking in Banff or exploring a country for the first time. Please be fit, trim and adventurous.



I am very loyal in my relationships. I love the Lord and want to serve Him all my life as best I can... I am kind and considerate and honest in my relationships. I am a very giving person and like to do special things for my friends. I am looking for someone who also has these qualities as well as a good sense of humor ... I am looking for someone who is willing to serve the Lord together whether it is in a music ministry or some other ministry .. I am looking for someone who is committed to a healthy relationship and puts his wife second after his relationship with the Lord ... I would also hope that the person is committed to keeping himself healthy as best that he can and knowing and respecting his body as the temple of God.

I am looking for someone to do everyday life with, good, bad and indifferent. God put us on this Earth to be in community, not to be alone. "Iron sharpens iron." I am a single Mom of a 4 year boy who just bought a townhouse in Naperville. I am more blessed than most single Moms in that I have a Mom & Dad (Grandmama & Papa) and 3 sisters (Aunties) that are great, they help out a lot. I am not looking for a Dad for my little guy, he has one of those. I just want to believe everything I went through in my first relationship was for a reason and happened for a bigger purpose in my life. It was just a chapter of my life, no regrets, I still believe in love. It made my faith a whole lot stronger that is for sure. I grew up in Wheaton and went to school @ ISU ...



I'm seeking friendship with a spark - someone I can laugh with and has good communication skills. Those are both important to resolve conflict. I like deep conversations and contemplating life and God. I'd like to meet someone who will be patient in getting to know me because if I like someone, I can be shy.







My name is Matt, and although I have a day job that sounds boring, I have a number of interests that give me fulfillment and take the geekiness out of me when the workday is over. I am a singer-songwriter with one of Milwaukee's pop/rock bands, I skydive, and I enjoy spending chillout time with my family in Lake Geneva. I am a brown belt in Taekwondo, but I temporarily gave it up to
finish grad school. (Now that I have my Masters degree, I hope to get back into it real soon and finish what I started). I also enjoy attending sporting events (go Blackhawks!) and the occasional night out
at the movies, a great restaurant, or my favorite karaoke bar. And if Foreigner or Styx are performing live within a driving distance, I will do whatever it takes to make it to the show. On some weekends, I work as a DJ for wedding receptions.

The first thing I look for in a potential mate is whether or not she seems to have an interest in me. Sounds a little paradoxical, I know, but why bother chasing after someone whose heart doesn't beat at least a little faster when she sees me?

I like a real "girl next door" who is sweet, genuine, sensitive, godly, affectionate, and maybe a little on the shy side. Although it's not the only important quality, I need for there to be a real and mutual
physical chemistry between us. She doesn't have to have all of the same interests as me; in fact, if we have different interests, it will give us the chance to introduce each other to new sources of fulfillment
and/or appreciation.

I'm looking for a young lady who has never been married and has never had children, as I want the journey we share to be brand new for both of us. It will be a major bonus if she appreciates my silliness and my dry, sometimes twisted, sense of humor.

If we have a real personality mesh, and enjoy being with each other whether we're in romantic mode or not, then I'll know I've found a potential keeper. Best friends make the most ideal girlfriends, in my
opinion.

So tell me...are you looking for a best friend?


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