What the Experts and Singles are Saying:

From the pastors and experts...

"Kim and Linda are a welcome relief to any pastor as they come with a wealth of BIG event planning and experience.  I love how they partner with the local church and recruit volunteers to help.  As I personally have gotten to know them over the last several months I've been more than impressed by their walk with the Lord and personal integrity.  They have such a vision and passion for the Single adult and pay careful attention to their pain and needs.  Cache' Connections is definitely a God thing!

Personally, I've always had a check in my spirit about online dating.  However, over recent years it has become so big in Christian Singles' circles that I and other pastors have had to do our homework.  I believe the first four (4) questions they ask in their survey about beliefs settled my concerns about online dating.  They have such a genuine heart concern that Christian Singles have healthy relationships.  Cache' get's it!  Thanks Ladies!"  Keith Langland, Singles Pastor, First Baptist Atlanta, Atlanta, GA

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"We recently hosted a singles event at our church called Cache' Connections Live! in cooperation with Cache' Connections and WMBI. The event far exceeded our expectations in terms of attendance (over 400 attending), and the excellence with which the event was conducted was wonderful. If you are looking to host a singles event at your church, consider Cache' Connections Live!. Kim and Linda are great to work with and have a heart for serving single adults." John Absher, Singles Pastor, Calvary Church, Naperville, IL

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"I love Cache Connections. Linda and Kim are awesome - we got to know each other through an event we hosted. They have such a heart for connecting singles to one another. Of all the single dating sites I have seen I would recommend Cache above them all. What are you waiting for? Start dating!"  Greg Steely, Sinlges Pastor, Mount Paran Church of God, Atlanta, GA

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"Dear Kim and Linda,

I wanted to let you know what a blessing that it's been for me to work with the two of you over the past few months. Your passion and concern for singles is evident. And the vision you have shared for helping singles connect with one another and with Christ is inspiring and noble.

As you know, singles often feel on the outside in most of our churches. Congregations like ours have developed dynamic children's and youth programs, have put together support systems and even entire sermon series on marriage and family issues. Yet, we have struggled to effectively reach and feed singles on the scale that we would like. Partnering with your ministry provides us an excellent opportunity to better serve and minister to the needs of our singles.

The fact that you have been so open to input from myself and other church leaders in our community has left a real impression. That teachable spirit, combined with the focus and dedication that you've displayed, leads me to believe that God is going to use your ministry greatly.

Stay the course and continue to draw near to God. May the Lord bless you and your service." Jim Powell, Senior Pastor, Richwoods Christian Church, Peoria, IL

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"To the Church … If you are a pastor or church leader, I would highly recommend partnering with Cache’ Connections to hold an event at your church for Christian singles. As today’s singles population has grown to almost 50% of the population, many churches are struggling to meet the needs of Christian singles.  Whether or not your church has a singles ministry, Cache’ Connections can fill a much-needed service for Christian singles.  Cache’ Connections is a connection point for Christian singles providing online matchmaking and community services, along with live events.  Their mission is to encourage singles to stay committed to II Corinthians 6:14 “…do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers,” and also to help them form healthy relationships. 

Cache’ Connections founders, Kim Whitaker and Linda Martin, are committed Christians who have a passion for serving Christian singles.  Their events are well-organized and offer hope, encouragement and community for Christian singles.  Having tried and succeeded at online dating (and happily married to someone I met online) in my own personal life, I support an online dating site such as Cache’ Connections that brings singles together under God’s original design for marriage.  This is not only an opportunity for Christian singles to connect with others, but also encourages singles to grow in their walk with Christ.

To the singles … I recommend Cache’ Connections wholeheartedly to any Christian single who may have been hesitant until now to try online dating.  Because Cache’ Connections is operated by committed Christians, and because of their relationships with local churches, members can be assured they are in the company of like-minded believers as they connect with other members.  Having tried and succeeded at online dating in my own personal life, my wife and I encourage you to “cast your net” out as we did to find your heart’s desire.

Cache’ Connections is purposeful about helping Christian singles make wise decisions when it comes to dating, and I have been happy to provide articles for the Recommended Reading section of the website, and look forward to the opportunity to speak at one of their live events.  In my 33 years of service as a Christian psychiatrist focusing on relationships, it is refreshing to see the founders of Cache’ Connections take a proactive stance on God’s original design for marriage."  Paul Meier, MD, Founder, Meier Clinics

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I have found that Kim and Linda have a selfless passion for single people who are honestly looking for God's guidance for biblical relationships.  I have personally worked with with Kim and Linda along with other pastors in addressing the needs of today's Christian single, and I can attest that the Cache Connections directors have a deep trust in Christ as their personal Savior, high regard for the authority of God's Word and a strong commitment to biblical purity.  Kim and Linda are well grounded, and from a position of strength they bring great hope to others who seek to unfold the dynamics of godly relationships.  It has been a pleasure to see the unveiling of God's plan through Cache Connections. Kerry Frantz, Assistant Pastor, Grace Presbyterian Church

From friends of Cache' Connections ...


"You offer an exquisite site that is safe and you both care!  That is the Cache' Connections difference!  We can tell you both love the Lord and he is first in your lives."  Vicki, FL

"I also enjoyed the quick introductions event. I've never been so impressed with the character and openness of so many women before. Everyone was upbeat, happy and easy to talk to."  Jesse, IL

"Your service to unmarried singles is invaluable and will continue to be needed greatly in our changing world.  I pray long and healthful life for you and Kim and your families."  Blessings, Linda, Atlanta, GA

" I'm so taken with the sincerity and transparency with the site, it has a "feel" that I have not experience with other similar sites, perhaps it's a God thing.  The group chats are a terrific idea.  I'm
encouraged!" Faith, Atlanta, GA

"I would like you both to know that I am so pleased with your website.  The concept and they way that you run it are wonderful."  Cheri, Crystal Lake, IL

"Thank you very much Linda and Kim!!  I've been checking out my "connections" and am impressed by some of the men I am reading about!  How different this must be than a secular dating service...not that I would know, your's is the only one I am participating in because it is 100% Christian. Thank you again for all you're doing for us single people out there who love the Lord and want to share our lives with like-minded companions!!"   Debby, Darien, IL

"I'm Chris and I’m a Christian single (like they would say in an AA meeting).  Sometimes I feel like that…like there’s a stigma attached to being an unmarried Christian.  Especially with the way a lot of Christians get married at such a young age.  I’ve heard a lot of kids now are just combining their wedding receptions with their 8th grade graduation parties. This is a problem for me because I’m 29 years old.  I don’t think I’d look right escorting a girl to Prom.  Thankfully something like Cache Connections exists.  Cache Connections is the rebuttal of the statement “All the good ones are taken”.  That’s not true.  Good ones are still out there and now, thanks to the internet, there’s a whole group of “good ones” in one place.  Now I’ll be real…the first thing I thought when I heard about the website was “What kind of weirdos are gonna be on there?”  But as I started to talk to people on the site I found out that these aren’t weirdos…quite the contrary.  These are people just like me who have high standards.  People aren’t ok with meeting someone at a bar or giving their number to someone who “seems nice” but may or may not be a committed Christian. I wasn’t saved until I was 21.  And even then I didn’t submit my life to God.  It was only a few years ago when I finally started to live a life that is pleasing to God and I realized that just any woman wasn’t going to cut it. I raised my standards and I refuse to lower them just to have someone.  I’ve been in relationships where I was drastically unevenly yoked with my girlfriend and I can promise you, you’re much more likely to backslide than that person is to step up.  Everyone is at a different place in their walk and that’s what I love about Cache Connections.  They ask the tough questions like 'How committed are you to abstaining from sex before marriage?' and 'What is your level of involvement at  our church?'  So you know before you even make contact with a person where they’re at.  I’m not going to ramble on all night about this, but if you’re considering checking out the website, I implore you…do it.  Don’t feel like you’re settling by doing so because you’re not…you’re raising your standards.”  Chris Artis, Peoria, IL

"Hi Ladies, I just wanted to thank you so much for the opportunity to share on Friday night. It was truly a blessing to have God "stretch" me in a way I never even fathomed!  Although I wish I could have conveyed my thoughts with a little less nervousness, I really felt honored and privileged to have been given the opportunity to be a mouthpiece for you, and more importantly, GOD!  Meeting Dr. Meier was also a blessing as well!!  In any event, I just wanted to tip my hat for the effort you are making and for following what God has put on your hearts to do as your ministry. I am certain it has required much sacrifice on both your parts, but I know your reward will be well worth it. Sincerely, Devin, Aurora, IL""Out of curiosity I checked out your Christian singles website! I am soooo impressed! I wish you all would have been around when I was single! I tried different Christian singles sites and came across a lot of people who said they were Christians but definitely didn't walk the walk. God bless you with this much needed avenue of matching Christians!" Bianca, Fredericktown, MO

"I really would like to share some of my positive feedback with you about your team's personal touch. I was extremely hesitant in joining any singles dating service, however, I am thankful that your particular service is absolutely unique in that it really does extend beyond a distant website.Your phone contact is always welcome!" Silvia, Libertyville, IL

"I wanted to tell you about my experience with Cache Connections. I have to say that I was sort of hesitant to join as many people are, I have found out. But I felt safe joining this service because I genuinely felt that this was blessed by God. Since I joined I have developed a certain level of confidence in who I am in my Faith and I have grown strong in standing in my truth. I am not afraid to share that with people. I have met a couple of wonderful people, men and women .... So thank you again for this blessed service. I hope that others will be brought to this service because it is definitely a very relaxed and easy was to get involved with Christians and people that share your beliefs. I honestly feel so Blessed and I am so happy that Christ led me here. I am looking forward to wonderful things happening ... !" Jennifer, Plainfield, IL

"Both of you have certainly evidenced being positive and supportive of me in all of our email interactions which has been very encouraging to me. Thank you very much for how you are allowing God to use you both in this huge endeavor to bring His cherished and treasured gifts (!) to so many people. I praise and thank God for the blessing you both are and will continue to be for so many people and how God will be Glorified in this ... and probably in ways that are far-reaching, that you have no idea of even yet." Sharon, Fredericksburg, VA

"Kim and Linda - I would like you to know that personally I value everything the both of you are doing - this ministry is greatly needed and I thank God for you and Cache' Connections. In the past I've been tempted to try other services but have never had a Spirit filled conviction to do so until your service came to our location. Now I just have to get more involved - break out of my comfort zone and allow the Holy Spirit to continue to lead and guide me on this adventure. Thank you again Ladies" - Dee, Winnebago, IL

"I was very apprehensive about joining an online dating website. Finding Cache Connections was an answered prayer for me. The fact that everyone had to agree to the 4 Statements of Faith gave me a sense of peace. It is great knowing that every connection that comes up shares and believes the same 4 Statements of Faith, it is so hard to find that these days with all of our busy schedules. Thank you so much for launching this website, it has definitely has given me a new sense of hope and I cannot wait to see what doors God opens for me through this website!" Alicia, New Lenox, IL

"I read your statement of faith, and really respect your Christian values." Lori, Rockford, IL

"Thanks for all your hard work in getting this going. It is obvious a lot of time and passion has been put into it. I am telling friends about it ... Thanks!" Julie, College Park, GA

"I would be honored to have my picture and bio used in your marketing campaign. I spoke to Kim last weekend and stated what a blessing this site is and will continue to pray that this site sky rockets with many Christians who want to go to a safe place for PURE dating relationships." Annette, Plainfield, IL

"Kim and Linda, I wanted to thank you for obeying Jesus by creating Cache Connections.  I enjoyed the event and meeting you at First Baptist Atlanta on July 31st.  Attending the event and joining your organization was the first step and major breakthrough for the spirit of fear to be broken and removed from my life.   You see, I was afraid to go or do anything by myself.  I was bitter and angry with God about being single for so long and even now at the age of 51. However, as I go forth doing things alone and enjoying life,staying in His Word, God will be able to use me for His purpose and plans thatHe has for me because I’m no longer held hostage at home, bitter or angry.  Thank you for being a part of this major deliverance in my life. Drs Tom and Beverly Rodgers were awesome.  I’m so glad they presented the challenge about the man’s role as the leader/hunter and intentional dating.  Emphasizing that it is better to obey God.  I purchased both of their books.  Kim and Linda thank you again.  May God continue to bless and keep you.  May His face shine upon you continuously as you stand boldly spreading and keeping the integrity of the Gospel of Jesus.   God bless you both.  I am forever grateful.  Kimberly, Atlanta, GA

I have been very happy with Cache.  I believe the matching methodis the best system.  I have enjoyed and learned much from the chatswith Dr. Steven Simpson and Emily Shupert.  The reference material ishelpful also, I have started reading Dr. Simpson book.  The live event at FBC Atlanta was great.  Drs. Rogers were very interesting and fun.  Thanks for your hard work in this ministry, Max, GA   

What members are saying about The Meeting Room:

"The open chat room is a great place to meet people, share day to day experiences, and find out what is going on locally for Christians. I have actually made a new friend and we attended an event at her church recently, when both of us would otherwise have been home alone. I have found everyone to be very welcoming and friendly, and helpful. The chat room is a refreshing and safe place where you can share your walk with God with other single adults." Sharon Rose, Belvidere, IL

"I had never participated in an open chat before and had no idea how much fun it could be. My son probably thought I was nuts sitting at my computer with a grin that stretched from ear to ear and laughing out loud. When it was time to say goodbye, I was reluctant to call it a night and wished I had a chance to meet all these fun people face to face. If you haven't tried it yet, I highly recommend it. You'll have a great time." Beth, Danvers, IL

"I love the Cache Connections scheduled chats. In the last few days I have laughed more in chat rooms than I have for weeks. My spirit feels lighter and I am more relaxed about being out in cyberspace. I have met a lot of really great people who, just like me, are looking for friendship and love based in Christian values." Mary, Rockford, IL

"I am actually very impressed by your service. It is very personable and the system is to the point. You know you are getting professing Christians and not people who are just nominal Christians. The system is friendly from day one and you are allowed to compose your own correspondence. All and all, it is a great tool to meet someone. Without compromising on quality, it takes minimal amount of time to screen people and to initiate correspondence. Good job and I have nothing but good things to say." Valentina, GA

Click here to find out what people are saying about Cache' Connections Live!